Lately it seems that everyone is always asking when are you going to have another baby?
Even Rob who told me numerous times I don't want another baby has been asking me when we will have another. Or saying if I could guarantee you a girl would you have another.
Well the answer to that is I don't know. I am not ready to have 2 kids yet. I love just having Lincoln to worry about. And he is a handful. There are still things I want to do with my husband.
I told him after we (me and the hubby) take a vacation we can have another one. I don't mean a weekend trip. I am talking about Alaska or another Sandals resort.
Am I being selfish?? Am I depriving Lincoln of having a brother or sister close in age?
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Nope. I know lots of individuals who waited to have baby #2.
We didn't plan our second and are happy she is here but it would have been nice to have a year or two to just enjoy our first.
My new parenting mantra is, "whatever you decide to do is perfectly right for you and your family!"
:)
you have to do it when you are ready...i chose to have mine closer because i'm looking ahead...they will all be gone (in college) and I'll be 45 and home free!!!
you need to do what is best for you. you will just know when the time is right. remember, if you got preggo now though, it would be almost a year away and Lincoln will do a lot of growing in that time. In my personal opinion, I think about 2 1/2 yrs. to 3 years is the perfect age difference. It was nice having Reyna independant and out of diapers before Ruby came along. :) Good luck with your decision.
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