Somebody, Anybody, Please enter me in What not to Wear.

I have not had the best week this week. My darling, lovey husband told me that he hated when I cut my hair (that was in September of 09). He told me it was the worst thing I could have done and it was so ugly. Mind you he is just telling me that now. If I wasn't' trying to grow my hair out I would cut it to spite him. Back up to Sept. My hair was falling out due to post-pregnancy. It was only falling out in the front side so my hair looked nasty. So, I cut it. I liked it. It was low maintenance.

Also, this week he told me that Lincoln and him may look exactly alike but he is built like me solid. Not what I want to here. I am the most self-conscious person there is. I have had body image issues since I had Lincoln so that did not help.

Then my awesome sister that I normally love to death had a heart to heart with me. She was helping me pick out something to wear out with my husband and preceded to tell me "Your clothing wardrobe is pathetic, I have never seen someone with so little cloths that don't go together and is a lot of black." That comment I could deal with because I know I desperately need new cloths. I have only bought a couple of articles of clothing in 5 years. Back to the body image issues I hate going shopping. I can't match items up together. I cannot figure out if something goes together at all. I very desperately need Stacey and Clinton to visit me. All I wear around the house are sweats and tee-shirts. I am very sad.

To the comment that bothered me. It was about my belly fat up by my ribs. I just started crying!!

I really wish I wasn't so self-conscious. And I blame my lack of clothing. I need more adult clothing not going out the the bar when I was 21 with no kids or husband cloths.

If anyone would like to help me in my search for clothing I would love it. Or if anyone has a go to outfit and would like to share that would be great.